A new beginning to an end

[ClingingToHope]

Way back in March 2009 STBXW -- after bomb before final split -- she said the one thing that will hurt is if I find some younger lady who likes to get out and do things like run, swim, ski, etc.

She said that will hurt.

STBXW seems to be the ice queen. She says she wants me to find someone. She wants to be friends.

We'll see.

Have you seen "When Harry Met Sally." Both main characters really struggle when they see the ex with someone else.

I've seen a guy mowing my grass and the same guy driving my car. She says they are just friends. I guess. If I ever see her out with another guy, that'll really hurt.

I had a friend who got divorced. When he started dating, the ex had second thoughts and started to try to get him back. They even moved in together -- they had a son together with special needs -- but it didn't last. He said there are just things they don't like about each other.

I'm rambling.