I assure you, when things get legal and each of you have lawyers, and when things start to heat up and happen on the legal front, she's gonna go after your nuts if she thinks she can get em'!
LOL.
Wow. Over $3? That is ridiculously petty. May be better just to pay it and not say anything to her re: anything but D until your court date.
She sounds like a piece of work, Romeo. You definitely are better off than with someone like that!