I do have a question. I'm still putting my paycheck in our joint account, but he is not. I thought it was the right thing to do. Now I'm not so sure. He always took care of the bills so I'm in the dark about everything pretty much. Now I look in our joint checking account and his gym membership and a nutritional supplement that has on auto-ship each month has been deducted from our account. Other bills that are set up on auto pay like our electric bill and auto insurance are due to come out of the account within the next 5 days. There isn't enough money in the account and for all I know, he could have already had his auto insurance put on a separate policy. I really don't want to speak to him.
I'm talking to my attorney today but she charges me $250 an hour....so basically I don't know what to do. Advice? Not to mention the mortgage will be due by the 15th. I don't make enough money to cover the bills that are coming in. I guess part of this is "my problem" because this is all a result of what I have done, but he wants the house, I intend to give it to him, so he should be helping with these bills, right??