Damn it. I've either made a big mistake or misinterpreted the whole thing.I did Mr Meltyman so today she is telling me..
Don't think i want things to go back how they were, i'm doing this (trying again) beacuase it's the right thing to do,not because i've fallen back in love.
We might be happily married 6 months down the road or trying to separate again, I'm going into this with extreme caution..
I'm worried that we will start having sex again and become romantic with each other again and it will all fall apart"
We discussed the things that we wanted to change about each other, me being less passive aggresive and less afraid of what to say to her. I spoke about a more balanced childcare role, the idea of a separate apartment for her has been put on ice.. she also promised that her "indescretion" would never happen again..
Part of me says that this is amazing progress and I should be very happy, part of me says she's going into this half heartedly, knowing it's doomed to fail..
Also what is the protocol, when living under the same roof, I don't want to be available for her all the time, but do I ask her out with me, bearing in mind i've been invited to a few parties on my own. I need to be GAL'ing! but don't want her to feel that I'm the one being half hearted..
