After my hell ride the past few days of trying to cope with my sitch, I'm going to tell you what I think I've finally learned.
Don't allow your anger to be the feeling that drives the no contact. The anger will gradually seep in and if she finds that button, you will go off. You need to focus on your kids and then start doing things YOU want to go do, be happy while doing it.
Do not allow yourself to dwell on what SHE might be thinking or how she's going to come at you either, because you will see some strange things and if you are not acting from a good place it can get ugly quick. Always act confident and show her no weakness. My god it's easier to write this than do it though
I see it in your comments just as clearly as it has been seen by others in mine. Do not let the anger seep in friend. GAL and focus on you.
