I absolutely loved being married and I fought hard to save my marriage. We saw Michele in person and I DB for awhile, but I quickly saw my marriage, as I knew it, was over. At that point, I sat back and took a hard look at myself. Yep, there were lots of things I didn't like. I have taken the last 16 months to work on myself and get myself to a healthy emotional place where I can again think about finding a partner. I've learned that *you don't attract what you want, you attract what you are.* That might be hard for some people to swallow, but trust me...it's true. If the people you are dating aren't measuring up, I would ask you to look deep inside yourself.
Every day I get up, I meditate and I say to myself, "I love LOVE. I wil always have love, and I will find another to share that love." Now, I'm waiting because I know he's out there and he's close, but NOT yet because I'm not ready.
What's the best thing about being married? For me it's knowing no matter what, there's one person out there who's *got my back.*
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
