Why would you even consider taking her back if she's with another man? Seriously how low is your self-esteem that you would tolerate that? What's wrong with you bro? She's with another man, hello?!!!!
Boom.
That's it, right there.
Dude I went through a back and forth with my wife during our separation where we would both go dark for a while, then start to hang out again, and each time that happened I would say "Are you dating/seeing someone"?
Three times she said yes, and three times I said "have fun with that" and back away and went dark again.
After the third time I went dark for 3 months and found a nice girlfriend.
I did not "leave the door open"... At all.
My wife had to pry it open again.
And she did.
And I'm glad.
I guess the whole point of my post here was I wanted to say that I went through a 7 month separation, and from the beginning Rob and especially Gucci were dead on right about what I SHOULD have done.
It was hard as sh!t to do, though, so for about 5 months I ignored the advice, cause the scraps were nice. The scraps kept me going.
Ok, I'm rambling.
Man, if your wife is openly seeing other dudes or even going on dates, you just gotta get the hell away from her as fast as you can.
Seriously. Get a girlfriend. Walk away wives FLIP OUT when you get a girlfriend.
