I secured all important documents in a location wife does not know about. She discovered I'd months later, and was upset about not having access to kids SSNs and birth certificates.
W text-Why r u hiding that stuff from me? I'm just entitled to it as you
A little while Later she texted, I'm prob keeping van, so you'll have to get another vehicle
The reason she said that was a while ago I had asked if we could swap cars during / after divorce temporarily to help transport kids. Obvously I see now that can't work, as I don't want to have to depend on her... She'll just be in a position to make things tough on me if she chooses.
I did send her one text telling her I would get the kid's SSNs for her. I left them with a cert copy of each of our 4 kids birth certificates on the counter and wrote a note asking for copies of shot records.
I went to bed and fell asleep fine. I got up, showered and went through the daily ritual of getting kids from school... Still no words, just a cold breeze whistling by from where her heart once was. As she drove away, she texted, I'll be moving out Nov 1st, just to let you know, In meantime I'll stay out of your hair, ttyl, have a good day.
Hours later she sent a repeat text informing me again of how she would be watching the kids this day, that day and dropping them off that day, etc.
In the evening she inquired, How R Babies?
No response from me! I figure, if there's an issue, I'll be in touch, which I advised her of previously. Not falling for that crap. Alot of times she asks about the kids after they r in bed. She may be legitimately wondering about them, but I'm still not responding right now.
