Detachment is good even in healthy, stable marriages. In fact, Michele would argue you cannot have a healthy stable marriage if both partners are not detached.
Detachment means understanding that there is you, her, and the marriage.
Detachment means understanding that the only person you control is you. Detachment means owning your own choices. It means asking for what you want/need and knowing that she can say no.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
