So the DB coach said I needed to do a 180 and increase contacts, go see the kids, call wife, not be confrontational, etc.
Nothing wrong with that. It's all goodness. It shows confidence on your part.
Detached means you have no expectations, you are focused on the process not the outcome.
You can handle it Joel.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
