New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

For some reason I thought you had your 20 years already. Thanks for the clarifications.

They are good baby steps. You have done a lot of things that have worked.

BUT you are still in limbo.

Take a deep breath and think about what you need.

You don't have to make a decision today.

But being patient can turn into letting yourself be stuck in a situation that is not healthy for you. It's a fine line.

I am interested, why do you think the advice is conflicting?