I am reading your posts and shaking my head. I can't imagine what you are going through. He is struggling to not look within and tries to find fault in you. He has got to get to the point where he solely looks within. Maybe the counseling will bring him to that point, I don't know. Right now, I don't care about him. You need to focus on how you are going to get through this stage of his MLC. YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME. He is a child right not. You have to take care of yourself and shield your emotions. Don't let him run all over you with his blame. If it gets to be too much, go run, shopping, etc.. whatever will help you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
