You are not in piecing. Your wife isn't all in. Common mistake. If you do piecing right you will go thru a "second honeymoon" stage.
Quote:
I am the WAS right now.
Then let your actions show her.
Four stages I've read here quoted from DB coaches:
- get rid of negative feelings
- become friends again
- rekindle the romance
- re-commit to the marriage
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.