Thanks Lance. I don't want to do anything but I don't have a choice this month. But I thought of a way but this is contact also isn't it for next month.....what do you think?

I could forward the statement (copy) and mail it again like I was doing after the first year of separation. H got mad when I did this though because he said he didn't need to be reminded when we were still speaking off and on.....I think it got him mad in a way cause I wouldn't call or text him just send it. But this time with NO note or anything anymore this time.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08