That I want to change her instead of accepting how she feels.
And how does she feel................................??????
It's real. Make no mistake. The sooner you agree with her feelings the better. Once you do that her thinking changes.
I know her feelings are real. I'm not stupid. If they weren't real, if she felt attracted to me, we wouldn't be having this discussion. I accept her feelings. Do I want them to change? Of course! All of us here would like our spouses to love them again.
