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Could some one please turn on a WAW translator and give any insights....


She can't believe you are still pursuing her after all she has done to you.

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I asked if she was certain that she wanted to D.


pursuing. rewarding bad behavior

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She said that I could never trust her again.


Because she has done nothing to regain it. She's right.


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I told her straight that it has to be something that she really wants.
I told her flat that I did not want to D.



Pursuing. Telling her what to do. Boring.

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She said she could not go back to 'that life'.


Are you listening?????????????????????


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She 'thinks' that 'too much has gone on'


Once again she can't believe you are still playing the same song to her. She doesn't want you to want her like this. She wants to be attracted to you.


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Has she doubts..?


Yes about you.

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How should I reply to these statements if they arise in the future again.


Agree with her.

"You are right I don't think I could ever trust you again. I have some decisions to make."

"You are right a lot has gone on. I don't think I want to be married to a woman who can't be faithful or trusted."

Watch how fast the dynamic changes. This is attractive and creates some excitement for her (not boring.)


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.