PMA...I know you are just trying to be supportive, but I really don't understand your thinking here.
SoAsh had sex online with multiple men, told one of them she "loved him" and told others she wanted to marry him, but would have to get divorced ... and her husband READ all of this and possibly SAW skype sex with his own eyes.
IMO, he is behaving exactly as MANY people would behave...by immediately moving out and getting an attorney.
On this board, you see many people in his shoes who don't want to let go...even after seeing similar with their own eyes, even after being betrayed like that. But my guess is that MOST people are more like him than those people here.
The people here want to make things work even after such a disaster. Myself, I would leave and never look back...and yes, that is coming from a former cheater. I'd be done.
Please don't encourage SoAsh to have suspicions of her husband. It isn't going to help the situation for her. IMO. Respectfully disagreeing.
