Best thing I can tell you from what I have learned from here in the simplest form..."If you feel like you want to/have to/should do....Don't"
If it's a "feeling" prompting it, don't let the feeling drive your actions
A lot of these "feelings" are part of the unconcious emotional patterns that got you to where you are posting here in the first place. They are feelings, so feel them, but don't let your ego fool you into acting on your feelings. Know your principles, and do what is neccessary while sticking to those. That makes it easier in more trying times.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
