I received an email from him yesterday that my attempts to get him to change his mind have made him more determined. He said I'm trying to trap him in a loveless marriage. I'm letting him go. Maybe one day he'll call me and give me a chance to apologize and consider giving me another chance but I'm not going to bother him anymore. I hope he can be happy some day again. I hope I can be happy too.
SOA - I'm still not convinced from reading your posts that a 3rd party is not involved. What he is saying is textbook for a emotionally involved spouse. He definitely sounds confident in his decision. Which usually doesn't come unless he had something else lined up.
Just my observation.
Another book I'd recommend is "getting the love you want" by Hendrix
