No I can't separate my name from the card. I already tried a long time ago. The only way to get him to pay 1/2 and to be responsible for being on time is if we get a legal separation and my L said that it is $750 just for the master's fees and that our county doesn't like legal separation. They would just rather go for the D. I don't have that kind of money anyway.

So now I have NO clue what to do about the card and him not paying. NC means not texting him and reminding him again this month, which is the only time I do contact him anymore. Any advice?

Last time I texted him saying "H, loan is past due and if we don't pay it today we will be charged fees. Thanks W"


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08