Just read your first post. So you suspect an OW may still be in his life?
If that's so... then just go and find joy in your life assuming you have taken steps to protect yourself financially. When or if it's time to move on, you will know.
If you have a reasonable boundary about not being in an open marriage or normalizing cheating, then stay dark and enforce the boundary. If that A ends, and he comes to you willing to be completely transparent, that's another matter. Dark is reasonable considering.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/29/1004:47 PM.
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