Now you have me wondering what a John210 kind of girl is!
I agree with you 100% on the judging issue <<And I am sure it would show in other areas as well>> I guess we all judge in our own little ways, however, after going through the divorce and dbing and sharing on this iste etc., I find myself being much less judgemental in matters of the heart and I have taken that to other areas of my life. I am much more open or accepting of others and their beliefs....I guess that is also growing.
I have a buddy (my age) who smokes pot occasionally and has multiple sexual partners. Although that is not my thing, he remains one of the nicest people I know...
Haha you guys crack me up! let's link someone's preference to judging just to make him look stupid, nice! Let's say if you knew someone who had a few people burried in his backyard but he's the nicest person to you- you must agree with his lifestyle or else you'd be judging him?
I have no problems with someone being gay or bi or working in the porn industry etc but none of that works for me. I actually knew of a guy who was married to a well known porn star. He thought it was the coolest thing ever...good for him I said! just not for me. Edit: Actually I have no problems if the woman was a bi
And no where did I say anything about marrying or a long term relationship. All I said was *for me* the person must have a special place in my heart before I cross that line because I hold love making to be something *very* intimate- hell it doesn't get more intimate than sex with being naked and inside someone else.
So let's just say different people have different point of views and preferences. Let's hope we all find who we're looking for as opposed to trying to change one another's pov.
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Well..., I didnt inhale!!! LOL! It wasnt my thing, I am not drinking, I am not into substances that may lead to...meaningless sex!! It was a huge shock though Kerry. We were tubbing down for hours Guadolopee (sp?) river with a little fridge tied to the tubes, I was smoking mentols and they were smoking pot. Tnat's when I realised, experiencing things is way different than hearing about them.
It is Guadalupe river. Was it this busy when you were tubbing?...
How long ago was this? You sure look different now
Strange fish indeed.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
