Need some encouragement

[kissak]

Thanks Lance....Im not sure he is ready to take care of my needs. So, what do I do about that? I can wait if that is the case. I can be patient.

I dont know if there is another woman. I know the one that he was involved with heavily when he first left is no longer in the picture. I know he has women friends...including the one he took flowers to...just being friendly he said.

I did ask him why he is alway on his cell phone texting. He said he used it as a distraction to everything. Sometimes it helped and sometimes it makes it worse.

I know my old H is gone. ANd I miss him. This new model though...if this is who he is going to be...I dont think I would have married someone like this.

I dont think his IC has recommended MC yet. I know my H doesnt want it, he doesnt think it works...didnt before was his thought. I wish she would recommend it though. She is a Family Counselor.

Wondering how I should handle him when he accuses me of doing things Im not doing. Like today, he sent me a text saying "what are you pretending to do" Meaning what was I doing at work...working or playing. I get that alot. I tell him Im working, he replys "whatever". His thing is Im at work all day and play on the computer. I have my own business. Some days it is very slow...when Ive done all I can do I get on the computer and do research for my business and I visit the boards too. I dont know how to answer his sarcasim sometimes.