Well, my wife sent me a text right before she was due to see the kids yesterday. She wasnt coming. She told the kids she was sick.
In the text she started on about how was it that I date and see other people, but she wasnt allowed to have her boyfriend in the kids life? I told her it wasnt the same thing. The OM had a hand in tearing this family apart, my children dont need to be happy with him around. They dont need to interact with the man who got involved with a married women and a mother. She should want better for her children. I also said that I was dating, i was seeing a couple of people, but nothing serious. Then the blindside, well my mom seems to like S>>> very much, nice get my mother to like your girlfriend. I had to laugh and thank my mother inlaw on that issue.
I told my W that i was seing s... casually and that was it. I valued her mothers opinion and anyone i am seeing will meet her way before they were ever to meet my children. I stressed that it was casual, just haning out and having a good time. No committment on either part. Told her what i was doing was rebuilding my life. It was about meeting new people, having fun. why not, i look great, feel great and dam, i hate to say it but women find a hardworking man with a good job and the family committment that i have attractive. I cant help that. The gym is not only good for me but my social life as well.
I told her that my social life was mine, not hers. That the OM was scum and i would never accept him in my childrens life. If it was anyone other than the OM i woulndt have an issue. If she pursues this avenue, I will do everything with in my power legally to stop it. My children have the right to know who their mother is trying to buy into their life.
Nice to know she is jealous of my social calendar. I have told MIL to keep quite about what i am doing. She can drop hints but give no details.
Since W didnt show up for her visit and I dont plan meals, I took the kids out for pizza and a movie. Feels good to be the one doing the fun stuff only for a change. She just could face her kids for what she had done. Should be interesting on Thursday for her visit.
