I hear you Robx. This is a big issue with the house though and I thought it was the right thing to do to update her.

Right now I'm still waiting to hear back from the agent. I left her another voice mail this morning and she still has not returned my calls. Very unprofessional. Not much I can do at this point.

I have the paperwork completed for plan B. I can either proceed with plan B later today or fisrt thing tomorrow morning...which is cutting it very close.

I called W this morning and she answered. We talked for about 15 minutes. I just kept it about updating her about the latest news. I did not tell her about my possibly doing plan B. I asked her if she made any calls to any attorneys or anything for the house and she said no...she didn't think it would make a difference. I asked her what she thought if the house goes to foreclousre tomorrow. She said there's nothing we can do about it now and it's the 23rd hour. It was really tough to see if she cared or not if the house goes tomorrow. She was at work and was whispering at times so I know she couldn't talk openly with people around her. She didn't like that I told the buyer's agent that we would need a decision by this afternoon. She felt I was pressuring the buyers. Hello?! If we don't get a contract today then it's too late tomorrow. Yes, it's time to put a little pressure on the buyers.

Doesn't sound like she has any back-up plan for tomorrow. I guess she's just resigned herself to the fact it might go tomorrow. I couldn't tell if it bothered her or not.

I'll give the agent a few more hours and then call again. It's all I can do now.


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