At some point we will need to sit down and discuss divorce agreements and things related to custody, etc.
No, you don't NEED to do that. That's what attorneys are for.
What worked in my situation was my W and I spoke about the custody. When she intially left we split them 50/50.
When we spoke 6 months later she tried to get M-F and give the weekends. I wouldn't budge, telling her I like the 50/50 and we should keep the same schedule.
I am OK with you talking to W about the kid's schedule as long as you can do it without emotion and with talking about anything else.
That's what worked for me.
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