Yeah, that's one thing that keeps me going. I don't understand how someone can be such a sourpuss all the time. I know our sitch has too much pressure, but she (and I) both need to just lighten up. Easy to say, hard to do.
It's hard not to see it as a reflection on me, since she is much more fun-loving at work. Lately I really feel life is too short for this [censored]. It's so easy to focus on what's always been missing, and what you're still missing.