I can relate to your sitch totaly... Seems like we are married to the same woman sometimes. Now if you have read my sitch you know I am still pretty screwed up BUT.....
After three years of this Cr@p.. Things are better...W is coming along with her low self esteem issues but I think the biggest improvement was in ME... When I read "Well, she was pretty business like when I got home. Not in the best of moods, and wasn't very talkative" YEP...Heck my W can change her mood with in minutes...but what changed was MY reaction to her mood swings... I try to let them go.... NOT let them affect mine. A little secret that I try to remember and use….. When your W is in one of her moods… In your mind… think back to a time when you both did something “silly” or some really fun thing you did…maybe even something “intimate” that will put a smile on your face….. Changes your attitude instantly I will guarantee it…..and with a smile on your face… I bet your W will smile back…..If she asks “what ya smiling about?”… Just say “oh nothing”….
Last edited by Dr LOve; 09/29/1001:52 PM.
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