Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[gutwrenching]

I haven't commented on your sitch before. Many, many others have.

How about you do yourself a favor. Forget what everyone here wants to see you do and you keep coming back asking questions. Do something for yourself, by yourself, without any other inputs or opinions along the way.

DO NOTHING regarding your M/R for 24 hours. NOTHING that has to do with your W or these DB boards. Give your brain and your rampant emotions a break. Don't talk to her, don't text her, don't write about her, don't ask a quetion about her. Take an over the counter sleeping pill, and sleep for 12 hours. And the other 12 hours do something other than be consumed with your situation.

One day - 24 hours - nothing will change in your M/R mess, nothing. Turn off your phone and leave it off, turn off your computer and leave it off, do something/anything other than constantly thinking about and worrying about your situation. Get some good sleep. And after 24 hours, see if you can look things any differently.

What do you think? This isn't coming out of some book, but for Pete's sake, you have to do something different. Everyone is telling you that over and over. So do something different, something you can handle, and then go from there.

That's my off the wall suggetion for the day...
I might be off-base, trying to think outside the box at this point