I fixed everything that was an issue with me before. I became the person he fell in love when we first met. I can't believe we are right back where we were.
Jennifer, this ^^^ is simply more confirmation that this is NOT about you. I'm sure you made those changes as much for yourself as in response to the things your H said that stung, but you also had an expectation that your changes would make a difference in your H's crisis or help to restore your M. Regardless of the changes you make, until your H faces his issues, he will still be in crisis.
That he is in counseling is a good thing. While he is, you must detach from his craziness as best you can and get on with your life. As IB says...breathe.
((Jennifer))
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
