If it wasn't for the kids she would be kicked out by now, I'm sick of living a life that I don't know what's happening in it.
Yes, I get on with what I want, but she is still part of my life, she is still living in the house, and she still has not mentioned us or what's happening in the future, and it's starting to get to me.
If she wants out, fine go, if she wants to stay and work on us, great lets get on with it, but it's like people have said limbo land and I'm getting tired of it!!!
How long do I put up with it?, I don't want to kick her out as I will be putting my kids out also, she will take them, but it's getting to the stage were I'm getting resentful of whats going on, for my sake and the kids?
I admit I made mistakes, I know I've hurt her, and I want to put it right, but how long do I wait for her to commit to anything, either going or staying, she's still here so I suppose that's something, is she still hurting and watch me, she has hinted at it in the past, waiting for me to fail, I can't keep the changes up, but it is hard waiting, but I know it's worth it if we can work it out, I don't know what's best for me and the kids!!!!!!!
