Wife states she is not in love with me anymore!

[HopelessInLove]

Well, The saga continues.

I have been feeling better how the interactions have been with the W and I. She seemed to be more receptive to talking to me, and was asking me questions about me. Though she is very shut off about things with herself.

This morning, I showed up to pick up the kids a couple min early. They were not ready yet. I helped myself to coffee, then decided to go and use mouthwash. And saw a tracphone sitting on the bathroom counter.

I guess I need to go back to thinking she is cheating on me. I need advice? Do I go to infidelity thread?

How do I deal? Do I confront again?
I was told before not to be an option. DO I go dark?

Yesterday coach talked about how I am doing well with getting her to break down the wall a little by her actions. And things seem to be warming a little. Maybe she is warming because I am being nice and she has had guilt for her actions but now thinks I am okay with how things between us are unfolding.