Originally Posted By: WhatNow
When do you say it? You could wait till he says "why aren't you replying?" But then you'd have to break your NC.


Well I didn't follow WhatNow's advice. I went from dark to NC over the last week or so w/o warning. I got a text this morning saying "Are you no longer wanting to talk to me?".

Now the dilemmma to respond or not. Thinking I'll use the "while you're not being an appropriate husband" type wording. Bad timing b/c I feel pretty done (but very sad) and saw a lawyer this week.

Advice? Suggestions now that I didn't follow the original advice?! smile

Thanks

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years