Now you have me wondering what a John210 kind of girl is!
I agree with you 100% on the judging issue <<And I am sure it would show in other areas as well>> I guess we all judge in our own little ways, however, after going through the divorce and dbing and sharing on this iste etc., I find myself being much less judgemental in matters of the heart and I have taken that to other areas of my life. I am much more open or accepting of others and their beliefs....I guess that is also growing.
I have a buddy (my age) who smokes pot occasionally and has multiple sexual partners. Although that is not my thing, he remains one of the nicest people I know...