Listen to Robx here. I got this twice from my W, the first time I screwed it up, went Melty Man, and it lasted a week. Second time I didn't go melty man and we've been no kidding working/committed to our M for a couple of months now.

Take it slow. Think about boundaries. Tell her you need to think about it for a day, then take a couple of days. Make her pursue...make her wonder if its too late. Make sure she is committed and willing to meet your needs. She's been pursuing her own selfish needs for a while now.

We all know you will want to dive back in with a huge grin on your face. The huge grin is fine, but keep it to yourself now.

You can do this. Keep doing what works


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11