Yes Lance, I know what that is, that's why I put the word guess in there. H's ow is very much about money (from H's mouth to son's ear) and she's not going to let him walk away with nothing from me. I love my home, even with all the work it needs. If it wasn't for H I would not have it. I will not be bitter about giving him what's legally his if it comes to that.
Mila, I do have it in writing of sorts. My H telling me of his intentions was sent to me by email. I'll remind H of what he said if/when the time comes, but by my state's laws he's entitled to half.
