I remember when I visited US the first time, I got people looking down on me because I was smoking and the next minute, they offered me pot... (!!!). Huge shock for me!
Did you take them up on their offer?
What you experienced is this thing called political correctness. Its meaning changes over time.
Well..., I didnt inhale!!! LOL! It wasnt my thing, I am not drinking, I am not into substances that may lead to...meaningless sex!! It was a huge shock though Kerry. We were tubbing down for hours Guadolopee (sp?) river with a little fridge tied to the tubes, I was smoking mentols and they were smoking pot. Tnat's when I realised, experiencing things is way different than hearing about them.
I am late to the convo due to time zone differences but I enjoyed reading all the comments. I agree with Citygirl. I have had more than x sexual partners (I am more a John's 210 kind of girl-LOL). And I enjoyed that period of my life. I dont feel my morals are twisted and I've been very loyal in my relationships. My first big love (the Texan guy) was very liberal about sex. I think he really had a one track mind. Granted I met him when I was still in school, his views affected my views. Coming from a very strict house, I balanced both influences and I am very happy with the result.
I wouldnt like someone asking me how many partners I had, especially in the begining of the dating. And I am pretty sure if that person fell in love me, he wouldnt judge me by that. If he did, he wouldnt be worth my time nor heart. Because judging is a way of living. And I am sure it would show in other areas as well... K
