Tulsa, thanks for sharing your perspective. It's great to be able to read the thoughts of someone who's been there. I am sure my H has experienced the depression, remorse, regret etc and I'm also sure that guilt is a huge factor for H. He has expressed that he has done too much damage and that he feels nobody would want to see him or talk to him because of the damage he's caused.
Your thoughts are very interesting and I'd love to hear more of your perspective when you have time.I'm sure Beatrice and Sanderika will, too! Thanks Tulsa