my H said something to my D that she didn’t like and then she acted disrespectfully toward my H. My H said “Maybe I should just go”. I told him how I felt. He sat and listened…he still got annoyed, but he didn’t leave like he would have in the past. We worked through it things got better after that.
Yes, Upside...both parts sound familiar. H used to exit at any sign of tension. Now he stays around. If I say something he doesn't like he might be annoyed but he doesn't just shout and storm out as he would have in the past.
How old is D? My D can be difficult with H.
This is sounding good Upside! I will be reading along and sending you the very best for this critical time.