Cas, it's interesting to see that when you were discouraged over the past couple weeks, some positive forward movement must have been occurring in H's brain. Maybe H's quietness was due to processing his decision about the job change?
Yes, true GAG and that's why I have to stop myself from jumping to conclusions and creating tension that's not needed. He's obviously in quite a thinking phase and I have to be careful that I don't cause him pressure. Atm being friendly, caring and relaxed is what seems to be bringing him closer. I think too much pressure will make him run.
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
Not sure why H took OW to visit with the relatives.
I'm not sure either GAG but possibilities are 1. Hadn't seen her for a while and was an opportunity to keep in touch 2. Didn't want to go to dinner alone with just one other couple 3. Wanted to show B and SIL they were still together-pride. I have previously commented that ow seemed to be a 'convenience.' Nothing has changed my mind, over the last three months.
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
With your H's job change is it possible that he might relocate? I hope not.
He says not at this stage. He has his own house and doesn't want to leave there for the time being. That being said, maybe he would if the right position came up. All his family live away and I don't think he's too keen to go back there so anywhere else he would be starting all over again and he would miss D.
Today H called in when he came to get D. He called in to look at something for the pool and said he would be back to fix it at a later date and briefly chatted to my niece and nephew. Coming in when he knew they were here was probably a big deal for him.
