She's out of hormones (4 days). No more I told her, this thing is going to kill you. We are not achieving what we were expecting sexually. She's accepting there is something about her. She is traped in that embarrasing position of me finding out about her EA (problably PA).

Guess what. We had sex (didn't ML, no passion). During this 30+ minutes session I reached orgasm 3 times. Very wierd, she doesn't let me touch her or allow me any oral. She got undressed herself and got inside the blankets. She was like feeling sexual, I noticed it but with the usual "harry up we are not going to expend the whole night here", I was 100% aroused. Finished in about 5 minutes (I couldn't hold it any more. I asked her if we could do it again, she didn't said anything and turned around naked. I did it again, and again. I could see her face full of enjoyment during sex. But after that, she became irritable and complaint b/c I did a little mess (don't want to go to full details). But I learned a technique -> during the rejection period instead of becoming angry and hurted I started to laugh and made some jokes about her behavior. I applied more pressure, not to hurt her (she was very rigid) and little by little she became gentile and open to sex.. I don't know how to explain that. I'm trying something different and no more of the same crap (rejection then anger, no more). It's working. Or maybe the hormone she was taking were hurting her feelings? dunno

Last edited by dgtal; 09/29/10 06:22 AM.
Me:52
W:50
M:30
D:19S:27
Discovered EA:08/08 denied
W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08
Exposed wrong OMW:10/08
Found exact OM's ID 2/09
Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet
25 months after still a rollercoaster