You can't have everything, where would you put it?

[ClingingToHope]

I was waiting for the girls to get off the bus and I thought to myself -- why wait. So I sent her a text saying I am moving into the house on X date and I'd like to come over the day before to pick up the four things I mentioned above.

I doubt the first three are going to be a problem. The rings, though, could be. My L said rings are typically gifts and remain with the Ex.

If it was anything other than my grandmother's wedding ring I'd say keep it. But my family is very, very eager for me to get those back.

No response so far.

Well, I didn't hear back from church_35 so I headed to my Tuesday divorce/support group. Church_35 is in it as well, just at a different table.

She didn't show.

As I was leaving the class, she'd called and left a voice mail saying she went home from work sick and she'd call me at lunch the next day.

If she was going to say no, I think she would have over the voice mail. It's the easy way, isn't it? So I'm hopeful she'll say yes. I'll keep you posted.

Of course, if she does I have to get some clothes pressed and the car cleaned ...

Hey BobbiJo, Reds are going to the playoffs. Woo, woo. I kind of wish the Cardinals hadn't folded their tent. It would have been fun to see it go down to the wire.