I guess the only reason I WOULD tell her in my mind is that it would be a big shock and I would give the "I'm giving you one more chance, move home now with boundaries or this is over permanently and I'm going balls to the wall with a L" statement.
Do NOT feed the drama llama. He is full.
Go to the lawyer. Protect yourself and your son. Be sad. Move on.
You learned nothing that you didn't already know. You just haven't wanted to believe it.
Rip off the band-aid and get on with the rest of your life. You have a great son and lots of potential. See a counselor. Invest in your relationship with your folks. Go to the driving range and swing that new driver with S4. There is a great life on the other side of the suck-tastic. You must pass *through* the suck. There is no way around it. You can do it.
SpinFree, the older John sending a note back in time
