btm was on this site several years ago, he's back again, he spent 99% of the time doing what he "felt" he should do and got the same results you are seeing, he finally begins to listen, to move on with his life and his wife gets emotional over his acceptance that the marriage is over and his moving on with life by beginning to date other women, follow his thread, check out pages of every wrong thing he did, he is only now beginning to see some progress because he finally listened and tried something different:
Originally Posted By: BeTheMan
OK Rob. I needed that. I think I am actually a little scared that I am truly ok with the end of the marriage and almost apprehensive about finding too much happiness elsewhere. I hope that makes sense.
Gotta tell this part - this morning I stopped by WAW's workplace to drop off clothes for S16 who started working there today. WAW asked if my pants were new. "Yes" I said. "They make your ___ look big" was her response. We talked for a few minutes about a work issue of mine. She asked for a hug when I left and I gave her one.
By the way...she cried during our phone conversation and made a comment about being "gipped" because I am now going to meet someone, fall in love and they are going to get the better me.
