Wife outta the blue sends me a text "Can I stop by and see the dogs?". I just laughed, like it's just this constant circle jerk that we keep participating in. So I bit...
I sent her a text back "You can meet me at the park later if you want". I figured if she wants to see the dogs so damn bad, fine, here is your option.
No text for like 45 mins...then she comes back with "Can't I just stop at the house to see them?"
I texted back "I'd rather you not. We can meet at the park. If you need something from the house, let me know and I can bring it"
No response yet and it's been an hour. I didn't deny her access to the home, but I felt I gave a nice and fair alternative.
She is testing me and I passed; sent her a quiz back. She has failed.
I know I can't mind read, but one thing is clear...she doesn't want to see the dogs so badly afterall.
Is she trying to get in front of me now? Trying to see if she can hang on or manipulate me? I think it's something like that, but I'll let you all decide. I'm still not very confident today in MY journey, but I feel lifted after this interaction.
