I say you need to get a L to get this stuff done because your ex sure isn't going to do it. I would think you would need proof that he is paying child support and alimony. I know you can go to jail if you don't pay the child support.
Your ex has also always been a control freak. Time to nip that in the bud because why on earth do you want to mess with that for the next 8 years??
I just got your e-mail. wow!
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory