No, I am not helping him with anything. He will definitely have to do all the work. When we met I told him this was HIS divorce, not mine. I am aware of what I do, and I try the best I can to not give him ANYTHING to use against me as "my fault"...like argue, spew, etc.
I mean he did that in the beginning,saying things I had done...made fun of him picking his fingernail...Okay? Then he turned it into "it was him." He just didn't have feelings anymore.
But back to the point, I understand what you are saying. Thank you for your response.
Snodderly Lmao...yup he already did this. He has taken a picture from a frame! It took me awhile to notice it as it was on a shelf. He also took the stereo from the garage and that took awhile to find. So now I say to D's when I go home on his day he has been out..that I am going home to do inventory. Lol!
Punkin Also lmao...he was doing this the day we met to divide things. He was sitting in the kitchen and looking around the living room...he says..."OH! I have to put my deer-head on my list! All excited like.
Then he goes into bedroom to look for something and comes out with a picture...taken off the wall! Lmao....he says, This is going to be my next tattoo!" I said, "are ya bringing it back?"....he paused a long time and said...I don't know.....I bought it for me..I said, ok. Then he says, I suppose I could bring it back, cause I will have a tattoo of it. I just looked at him like he was from another planet and I was trying to understand his language!
Then he saw the kitchen table in the porch, ready for kids to pick up. He says, "what are you doing with the table?"...I said chairs are going to one D25 and table to the other D21." He says, " Oh," all mopey-like.
Felt like I should have price tags hanging off- the lamp and OH!.... the end table!
Thanks for you response guys!
Baffles the mind...lol.
M\51- H\53 crisis-08 M-30 years 2-D's 25\22 ILYBINILWY - Feb 09 BD - Mar 09 Sep- May 09 NC -Jan 10 H fl'd papers Aug-10