WAW The cold & cruel truth!

[Ready2Change]

I think I made a mistake, I sent this text to W

No mistake. It was the right thing to do. Nice Job!

I strongly suggest listening to all the great advise on these boards. The things that work are counter-intuitive.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Not a mistake at all. What did you expect her to day, "You're right, I've been crazy, I'll drop what I'm doing and come back to you right away!"???

As the others have said, she's testing you, and her response to you was SCRIPT. Far from a "mistake," I think you NAILED IT, too!





Puppy

[Steve McQueen]

Her response:

Was perfect. She is going to be a hard nut to crack.

just don't fall head over heels with your rebound. she'll be just that, your rebound.

[Blessed2BeADad]

I left it alone for the most part, just got this text from her:

Sorry if u thought I've been cold or mean to u ok. Not my intentions ok.. Never was trying to be mean to u.. Ur a good person, that deserves someone better than me, I'll ttyl..

She has also indicated quite a bit that she wants to see with someone decent. Makes me doubt my efforts will ever pay off.

[TimeHeals]

She has also indicated quite a bit that she wants to see with someone decent. Makes me doubt my efforts will ever pay off.

Script for someone in some type of affair.

Sounds like Charlie Brown's teacher, "Wah, wah-wah, wah-wah-wah, wah".

"I hope you find someone who can love you the way you deserve".

Yeah, right.

"I hope you find someone who can love you the way you deserve because I don't".

Trust us here. Stay dark for now.

[FaithnAK]

Crushed

I give you a standing Ovation! Awesome job.

"Sorry if u thought I've been cold or mean to u ok. Not my intentions ok.. Never was trying to be mean to u.. Ur a good person, that deserves someone better than me, I'll ttyl.."

This is the first of MANY! Stay strong and don't fall for her attempts.

[Blessed2BeADad]

I just deleted her from my Facebook. I know it may seem childish, but I found myself checking hers all the time and didn't like being like that.

[FaithnAK]

Actually, you just sent her another clear message.

[FaithnAK]

The crappy part is IF it pisses her off, she's going to be relentless in trying to provoke and test you. Just be on guard and keep coming here if you feel the urge to respond.

[Blessed2BeADad]

Yes she just flipped out over it... See that didn't take her long. That's all she does, IPOHNE, texting, FB. barely even looks up to see her children growing up around her. It's really sad. They and we are better off, hopefully she awakens at some point. I find myself wondering if I will get to the point where I will lose intrest in holding this marriage together. As I look back, she never made a single change.