"Ringing you bell" in court is a possibility. But that is independent of the house.

You could chose to get a life, start dating (or going to baseball games with buddies etc.) and let her be the baby sitter. Set up a schedule. You have 3 nights to go out and she has 3 and you are both home on 1.

I am not a lawyer, but once you leave, do you know that you could sell the house in a D settlement? Would a judge allow it?

It is tough. I know. You want to be the better person, the gentleman. But you have to protect yourself. Clearly 18 months is too long. Something has got to give. But why must you do ALL the giving?


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011