Thanks everyone for the support, it really does mean a lot.

Well, I'm still trying. Took care of some paperwork the agent requested and faxed it to her. Called the agent back again but got her voice mail again. I need her to call me to discuss some ideas/proposals I thought of to help the sale. Talked with my office manager for some ideas/offers to get these buyers to offer a contract. I think I have a solution to any concern they might have but I need this agent to return my calls. Ugh!

I'm doing everything I can think of here. I am taking care of it whichever way it works out. I have the paperwork for plan B and will work on that tonight in case I need to go that route. I hope I don't have to go that route but it's better than the alternative.

Not sure if I should give my W an update tonight or not. I don't know what to tell her other than I'm still trying to contact the agent and waiting to hear from her. I know I would want an update about something so important. I've been on the phone all day with the bank, attorneys, my office, voice mails for the agent, etc. God knows I'm trying with everything I've got.

I stopped by the house today and it was hard for me to be there. Now I know how my W is feeling about it. Now I know why she cried last weekend when we were there together. It is hard to lose it. It was hard for me to be there today remebering my W crying last week. To know that I caused that and hurt her. Made me feel terrible today. What I wouldn't give to turn back the clock 2 years and done things differently to have saved the house and my M.

Whew...anyway, I will once again give it everything I have tomorrow to get the contract (plan A). If it doesn't happen I will go with plan B. Come on plan A!!!


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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